10/03/2021. Twin flames are meant to be together in spiritual partnership. Here we mean meant to be together in the 3D physical world. In order for relationships, even twin flame ones, to exist in the real world they must come together in the physical one. In other words, they can’t just exist strictly in the 5D, or fifth dimension, spiritual. Yes, exactly. And it can become toxic on a couple of levels—the first being the impossible expectations Dr. Solomon warned us about above. The second is that if one believes they’ve found their twin flame, they won’t leave if the relationship becomes problematic or even abusive. As Ayana writes, “Twin Flame connections are not painful.